But seriously, this is the second straight-people-thread today that got a big ol‘ WTF!? “ posted by greekphilosophy at 7:31 PM on
I was with a guy for a year and a half and I knew he never did anything wrong and never betrayed my trust and I always thought he could be friends with any girl he wanted to be friends with. I felt it was definitely OK with him being friends with girls he knew before me, but felt iffy about new girls he’s met since he started dating me – I never said anything because I didn’t want to seem like a crazy controlling girlfriend but inside I didn’t like it.
So I learned that guys don’t really make new friends with new girls unless they’re attracted to them. Sure, they can keep their old friends because it’s crazy to demand them to drop their friendships, but it seems like if it’s a girl he’s met after meeting the gf and he keeps hanging out with new-friend, nothing good with come of that for your current relationship. Continue reading „Same-sex friends are different than opposite-sex friends?“