It may be good for you to look back and see just how much those friendships and relationships have changed in those intervening years
I would also suggest that maybe you should change how you’re looking at these relationships, especially considering the time that’s elapsed between when you were in town vs. now. That would suggest that people have been stuck in place and have resisted any sort of personal growth or discovery in the intervening years. But that’s really different from “we have a lot of shared history together that made it easier for us to reconnect and get to know each other as we are now.” There’s nothing wrong with having new friendships with old friends after all.
Now, meeting new people is going to be an exercise in patience and measured steps. Continue reading „If they’re exactly the same as they were back in high-school, then that would be an issue“