Yep. But if the woman is not perusing and keeping her options open, she could end up being surprised and hurt when he decides to stop browsing and start contacting someone else.
If you tell someone that you want to be exclusive and you both agree to hide your profile, show some integrity and see how the relationship progresses first. If things aren’t going as well as planned, communicate that to the other person and then both parties can unhide their profiles and look for more suitable matches. If one is secretly looking, and meets someone else that they really like, they may end up hurting the other person who had no clue. Likewise, karma may come back and bite the sneaky one in the butt because they may very well end up getting hurt if the person they meet in the future – whom they really like – does it to them.
I wouldn’t be too concerned, yet. He decided to be exclusive with you to find out if you’re the one for him or not. Maybe you are, maybe you aren’t. It would be nice if he didn’t feel a need to be curious about others, but IF he continues to find you a great match, his interest in others will probably fade. Besides, any comparison he does now that makes you look good will mean greater certainty and conviction that he’s making the right choice. Continue reading „Why do guys hide their profile on match“